Workbooks · Guides · Passive Resources

For the work you want to do on your own time.

Digital workbooks and guides for the people who want structure, language, and tools — without committing to a coaching package. Most under $30, instant download, made for actual use.

The Library

Eight workbooks, each one earning its place.

WORKBOOK · 01

The Opening Conversation

120 pages · PDF · INTERACTIVE
For couples considering opening

The complete pre-opening assessment

Structured worksheets and conversations for partners thinking about non-monogamy. The questions you need to answer separately before answering them together.

WORKBOOK · 02

From Complaints to Requests

48 pages · PDF · EXERCISES
For partnerships of any structure

The communication shift, taught in 48 pages

The Gottman-informed reframe that changes how you ask for what you need — with twenty practice exercises, partner-paired and solo.

WORKBOOK · 03

Kink Onboarding

86 pages · PDF · CHECKLISTS
For curious individuals and couples

A clinician's guide to bringing kink into a relationship

Negotiation frameworks, the desire-checklist that actually works, aftercare protocols, and how to talk about it with a partner without making it weird.

WORKBOOK · 04

The Premarital Set

160 pages · PDF · 6 WEEKS
For couples preparing to commit

Six weeks of structured premarital work

Self-led version of the premarital intensive. Includes values, sex, money, family, conflict, and the long-form questions most couples skip.

WORKBOOK · 05

Polycule Mapping

72 pages · PDF · DIAGRAMS
For multi-partner relationships

The visual framework for naming a polycule

Tools for mapping who's in the structure, what the agreements are, what the metamour culture is, and what needs explicit re-negotiation as the configuration changes.

WORKBOOK · 06

The Repair Workbook

94 pages · PDF · POST-RUPTURE
For after an infidelity, disclosure, or rupture

The structured work of relational repair

The slow, sequenced work of repair after a breach — for the partner who was hurt, the partner who hurt, and the work that has to happen in both of you separately before it can happen together.

WORKBOOK · 07

Conscious Separation

68 pages · PDF · GUIDE
For partners separating or divorcing

The end of a partnership, done with intention

The structured framework for ending a relationship well — co-parenting language, financial disentangling, social-network logistics, and grief work that doesn't require a diagnosis.

WORKBOOK · 08

The Sensate Practice

52 pages · PDF · 6 WEEKS
For couples reigniting the erotic life

Six weeks of structured sensate-focus work

The classical sensate-focus protocol adapted for queer, kink-practicing, and non-traditional couples. Pleasure mapping, slow touch, and the rebuilding of the erotic conversation.

The Whole Library

Every workbook, one library.

For practitioners, therapists, educators, and the chronically curious — all eight workbooks plus four bonus zines, lifetime access, and quarterly updates.

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What's Included

  • All 8 current workbooks (PDF)
  • 4 bonus zines (kink communication, attachment quick-ref, opening checklist, conflict templates)
  • Updated annually with new material
  • Practitioner license available (+$80)
  • Lifetime access via private library link