The Opening Conversation
The complete pre-opening assessment
Structured worksheets and conversations for partners thinking about non-monogamy. The questions you need to answer separately before answering them together.
Digital workbooks and guides for the people who want structure, language, and tools — without committing to a coaching package. Most under $30, instant download, made for actual use.
Structured worksheets and conversations for partners thinking about non-monogamy. The questions you need to answer separately before answering them together.
The Gottman-informed reframe that changes how you ask for what you need — with twenty practice exercises, partner-paired and solo.
Negotiation frameworks, the desire-checklist that actually works, aftercare protocols, and how to talk about it with a partner without making it weird.
Self-led version of the premarital intensive. Includes values, sex, money, family, conflict, and the long-form questions most couples skip.
Tools for mapping who's in the structure, what the agreements are, what the metamour culture is, and what needs explicit re-negotiation as the configuration changes.
The slow, sequenced work of repair after a breach — for the partner who was hurt, the partner who hurt, and the work that has to happen in both of you separately before it can happen together.
The structured framework for ending a relationship well — co-parenting language, financial disentangling, social-network logistics, and grief work that doesn't require a diagnosis.
The classical sensate-focus protocol adapted for queer, kink-practicing, and non-traditional couples. Pleasure mapping, slow touch, and the rebuilding of the erotic conversation.
For practitioners, therapists, educators, and the chronically curious — all eight workbooks plus four bonus zines, lifetime access, and quarterly updates.