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Coaching for the considered intimate life.

Transparent pricing. A real sliding scale. Single sessions, multi-session packages, and group offerings — all built around solution-focused coaching, not endless treatment.

Coaching, Not Psychotherapy

This is a coaching practice — and that distinction matters.

The services here are solution-focused coaching offered by an LMSW. They are not psychotherapy and not a substitute for clinical mental health care when that's what's needed. The trade-off is intentional: no diagnostic codes, no medical-necessity treatment plans, no insurance-bound documentation, and a private record. If we determine together that what you need is psychotherapy, I'll help you find the right clinician.

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What's Offered

Seven core services. All transparent. All bookable.

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Individual Coaching

For: solo work on intimacy, identity, exploration

One-on-one coaching for adults working on their relationship to themselves first — desire, identity, embodiment, the parts of you that haven't gotten enough attention. Often the entry point for partnered people whose work needs to happen on their own first.

  • Queer identity, gender exploration, coming-out integration
  • Kink onboarding, fantasy curiosity, sexual self-knowledge
  • Personal capacity work before opening a relationship
  • Disclosure, repair, and integrity work after infidelity
Per Session
$165
50-minute virtual or in-person · Wednesdays in Albany
Sliding from $75 — see below
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Couples Coaching

For: dyads working on connection, communication, intimacy

Two-partner coaching grounded in Gottman methodology and sex-therapy-informed practice. Same-sex, opposite-sex, married, partnered, long-distance — the methodology adapts to your structure rather than assuming one.

  • Communication skills and repair after rupture
  • Sexual mismatch, desire discrepancy, sensate-focus work
  • Re-negotiating roles after life changes (parenthood, career, illness)
  • Pre-commitment alignment for partnered people who aren't married
Per Session (75 min)
$215
75-minute couples session · book virtual or in-person
Sliding from $110 — see below
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Polycule & Multi-Partner Sessions

For: polyamorous, ENM, and multi-partner configurations

Three-plus-person coaching for polycules of any structure. I work with V's, triads, kitchen-table polycules, parallel poly with metamour mediation, hinges feeling pulled in two directions, and partners onboarding to existing structures.

  • New-relationship-energy integration without destabilizing existing partners
  • Metamour relationship-building or boundary-setting
  • Hierarchy renegotiation as a structure evolves
  • Group decisions: cohabitation, finances, children, disclosure
Per Session (90 min)
$285
90 minutes · 3+ partners · virtual or in-person
Sliding from $145 — see below
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Premarital Intensives

For: couples preparing to marry (or commit deliberately)

A six-session structured intensive grounded in the Gottman premarital framework, with my own additions around sexual compatibility, financial integration, family-of-origin work, and the long-form questions most premarital packages skip. Inclusive of secular, religious, queer, and non-traditional commitment structures.

  • Values and life-vision alignment
  • Sexual frequency, desire, and erotic expectations
  • Conflict pattern identification and repair tools
  • Financial integration, family planning, in-law work
Six-Session Package
$1,150
Six 75-min sessions · workbook included · save $140 vs single-session pricing
Sliding from $650 — see below
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Separation & Divorce Coaching

For: partners separating, divorcing, or consciously uncoupling

Coaching for the relational and emotional work of ending a partnership well — distinct from legal divorce services, family-law mediation, or therapy. Useful both for partners doing this work together and for individuals navigating it solo.

  • Co-parenting communication frameworks
  • Disentangling shared identity, finances, and social networks
  • Grief work that doesn't require a diagnostic code
  • Protection of privacy during a legally complicated transition
Per Session
$185
60-minute virtual or in-person · individuals or pairs
Sliding from $95 — see below
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Opening & Restructuring Support

For: couples opening their relationship, restructuring agreements, or onboarding non-monogamy

A structured pre-opening course of work for couples considering ethical non-monogamy, alongside ongoing support as the structure takes shape. Includes the legitimately hard work of identifying what each partner is actually asking for, what risk-tolerance looks like, and what an opening plan can include.

  • Pre-opening readiness and agreement-building
  • Disclosure pacing and partner-to-partner communication
  • Re-stabilization after the first new connection
  • Closing back down (sometimes the right answer) with integrity
Per Session (75 min)
$225
75-minute couples session · often a multi-session arc
Sliding from $115 — see below
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Groups, Workshops & Retreats

For: people who do their best work alongside others

Small virtual groups (typically 6 couples or 8 individuals), Eventbrite-listed virtual workshops, and occasional in-person retreats in the Capital Region. See the Events page for current offerings and the running schedule.

  • "Returning to Each Other" — 8-week couples group, recurring
  • Kink onboarding for couples — 4-week workshop
  • Polyamory 101 for the considering — 2-session virtual
  • Annual fall retreat in the Hudson Valley (limited capacity)
Varies by Offering
$95 – $980
Workshop pricing on each event listing · payment plans available
Scholarship slots available
Multi-Session Packages

Bundles for the people who already know they're in the work.

Most couples and individuals see meaningful shifts in 6–12 sessions. Packages discount the per-session rate and add structure — homework, workbook material, and the right cadence for the work.

For Individuals

The Six

$895
Six individual sessions · save $95
  • Six 50-min sessions, used within 4 months
  • Personalized workbook for between-session work
  • Two 15-min email check-ins included
  • Priority rescheduling
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For Polycules

The Eight (3+)

$2,090
Eight multi-partner sessions · save $190
  • Eight 90-min sessions, used within 6 months
  • Polycule-specific structural worksheets included
  • Three 20-min check-ins (single or full-group)
  • Optional metamour mediation slot
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Sliding Scale

A real scale, with real access.

Twenty percent of my caseload is held for sliding-scale work, with priority for clients from communities historically underserved by mental health and intimacy care: BIPOC, queer, trans, sex workers, fat, disabled, and undocumented community members. The tiers below are self-attested — I do not ask for tax returns or means-test the application.

Tier Self-attested basis Individual / Separation Couples / Opening / Polycule
Tier A — Full Fee Household able to pay full rate $165 / $185 per session $215 / $225 / $285 per session
Tier B — Reduced Household income roughly under $90K $120 / $130 per session $160 / $170 / $215 per session
Tier C — Sliding Floor Household income roughly under $50K, or under significant financial stress $75 / $95 per session $110 / $115 / $145 per session
Tier D — Mutual Aid Severe financial precarity; held slots only $25 — $45 per session $40 — $65 per session
Note on Tier D: Mutual aid slots are limited — typically 1–2 active clients at a time — and require an application conversation. When full, I maintain a short waitlist and offer alternative referrals to local sliding-scale collectives. Priority is given to people who would otherwise have no access.
Why Private Pay

The trade-off, made transparent.

I don't bill insurance. That choice costs you flexibility — and it buys you privacy, time, and a kind of care that insurance-driven practice can't actually offer. Here's the full reasoning, so you can decide if the trade is right for you.

If this practice doesn't fit your budget, I will help you find one that does. Albany has good insurance-billing clinicians, and I keep an active referral list. The point isn't to gatekeep — it's to make a different kind of room available for the people who need it.

Six Reasons Clients Choose Private Pay

  1. No diagnostic code on your insurance record. Insurance requires a billable diagnosis. That code follows your life forever — through subpoenas, custody disputes, life insurance underwriting, and security clearances.
  2. Spousal-support protection in divorce. A diagnosis in your record can become evidence in family court. Private-pay coaching keeps a separation from being documented in a way that could be used against you.
  3. Protection in the current political climate. Federal access to medical records is broader than many clinicians acknowledge. Gender-affirming care, abortion-related care, queer relationship work — all are safer when not in a federally accessible record.
  4. Time you actually get. Couples sessions run 75 minutes here, not the 45 insurance allows. Polycules get 90. We work in the time the work actually needs.
  5. No medical necessity required. You don't have to be sick to want help. Coaching is about growth — opening a relationship, building skills, exploring identity — not symptoms.
  6. You set the goals. No treatment plan submitted to a utilization reviewer. No insurance company deciding when you're "done."